A 3-day immersion in the art of authentic relating — for singles, couples, and anyone ready to transform how they connect with themselves & others.
"The greatest gift you can give to another is to become a fully healthy you."
Love, Relationships & You is Heart iQ's signature retreat — an immersive training in the art of authentic relating. Whether you're single, in a partnership, navigating family dynamics, or simply want to connect more deeply with yourself and the people around you — this is for you.
This retreat gives you the tools, the practices, and the direct lived experience to transform how you relate — to yourself, to others, and to life itself. You'll learn a multi-level communication system that integrates words, body, energy, and emotion into a language of the heart that every human already knows but has been conditioned away from.
This isn't talk therapy. This isn't sitting in rows listening to lectures. This is a full-body, full-heart experience of what it means to be in authentic connection — and to bring that home into every relationship and interaction in your life.
Heart iQ is not just a communication tool — it's a practice of being fully alive in your body, your heart, and every relationship you're in.
Drop the masks and defenses. Learn to meet yourself and others from a place of genuine openness — in any relationship, any room, any moment.
Develop the skills to move through triggers, have difficult conversations, and stay connected even when things get hard — with partners, family, colleagues, or friends.
Learn a heart-based communication system that transforms every interaction — from intimate relationships to friendships to how you show up in community.
Release old patterns and wounding that keep you stuck in toxic relational dynamics — gently, in community, with skilled facilitation.
Expand your emotional-energetic range and access parts of yourself — joy, power, vulnerability, fire — that have been dormant.
Feel what it's like to do your deepest inner work held by a tribe of people who truly see you, meet you, and have your back.
Both events are facilitated by Christian Pankhurst and offer the same depth of Heart iQ transmission. Choose the location that calls to you.
"When we communicate the real thing instead of the right thing, we end up communicating our authentic essence and heart."
Christian is the founder of Heart iQ and the author of Insights to Intimacy. Over the past 20+ years, he has developed a multi-level communication system that integrates words, body language, energy, emotions, and spirit — a language of the heart that transforms how humans relate to themselves, each other, and the world.
Through direct observation of thousands of group interactions during his retreats across 30+ countries, Christian began to see the hidden patterns of connection and conflict that show up in every kind of relationship — and translated these dynamics into a practical, embodied language that anyone can learn.
His work has touched 5,000+ lives, and this retreat is the distilled essence of everything he teaches — the foundational training for anyone who wants to relate more authentically.
Deep immersion in Heart iQ practices — circle work, embodiment, and relational practices guided by Christian.
A nourishing meal package throughout the retreat so you can stay present and held without worrying about food.
All teaching materials and practice guides to continue your Heart iQ journey after the retreat.
A carefully held space with a small group of committed individuals — no mass events, no surface-level work.
Please note: Accommodation is not included in the ticket price and is arranged separately. For New Eden (Netherlands), you can book at the venue or find your own nearby accommodation. For Casa Sagrada (Loveland, Colorado), you can stay at the venue or find accommodation nearby in Loveland. Details will be provided after registration.
No. Love, Relationships & You is designed for both newcomers and experienced practitioners. Whether this is your first encounter with Heart iQ or you've been on the journey for years, the retreat meets you exactly where you are. Many people attend this as their entry point into Heart iQ.
This retreat is for any human who wants to transform how they relate. Singles, couples, people in transition — it doesn't matter. Heart iQ is a relational training, not a couples event. The practices work on every kind of relationship: your relationship to yourself, to a partner, to family, friends, colleagues, and community. Most participants come on their own.
We believe this work should be accessible. The minimum investment is €500/$500, which covers your retreat and meals. You're invited to contribute above the minimum — whatever feels aligned for you and honours the value of the experience. There is no upper limit.
Accommodation is arranged and paid separately. For New Eden (Netherlands), you can book rooms at the venue or find your own nearby accommodation. For Casa Sagrada (Loveland, Colorado), the venue offers rooms or you can stay locally in Loveland. Detailed accommodation options will be sent after registration.
Each day typically runs from morning to evening with breaks for meals and integration. You'll move through a blend of circle work, embodiment practices, relational exercises, and teaching. The schedule is held with care — intense enough to create real transformation, spacious enough to process and integrate.
Yes! Each retreat is a complete experience, and attending both would deepen your practice significantly. They are held in different locations with different energies. If you'd like to attend both, simply register for each one separately.
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